
Older women had the wisdom stolen from them
of true maturity which doesn’t exploit the innocence of youth.
Wise women are unsung heroines stronger than most.
They’re not the predators perverse of media slogans.
Mrs. Robinson’s curse programmed us
to perceive older women as lusty abusers
who take advantage of young men’s naïveté.
The term, MILF is not a compliment folks
it’s a disguised way to imply, Motherfucker.
Older women are not horny sex bots for teens
to jerk off to, they’re not surrogate mother themes
or sex instructors to play out taboo fantasies
of pretend incest, the fucking your teacher
nonsense is schoolboy bravado, not reality.
The female teachers who actually raped boys is rare
but they’re no better than the mobs of male pedophiles
searching the dark web for enslaved victims.
Cougars are aging harlots, wanna be starlets who never
grew out of their spoiled decadent world,
the princess manifold of the born obnoxiously wealthy.
Cabana boy roles cheapen our world
where nothing natural is sacred.
There’s no respect for true maturity
which is about evolution and actualization,
growing spiritually into the light source of love.
It’s useless to pretend you’re not old money
you’re not fooling anyone into thinking
you’re in your 20s or 30s anymore
face lifts and Botox are obvious band aides
that don’t work honey.
Grow up emotionally before your
skin turns scarred into paper like bark
and your neck is sagging like turkey’s wobbling.
Don’t be a miser to the fountain of youth
which is where you get miser-able.
Rise up to your real potential
your life in retrospect is a treasure chest
of knowledge if you’d acknowledge it.
Complete your mission and soul contracts.
Don’t look back if it causes sorrow,
keep onward, forward to renewed tomorrow.
Reclaim your age and dignity by becoming a sage.
Share your kindness, not your neediness
validation has to come from within yourself
everything else is someone else’s tilted opinion.
No amount of fucking will win back your youth
or the truth that you are holy,
beautiful as you are.
Let your hair gleam into silver
accept the crown of crone
with grace and gratitude.
Mid life crisis is for the insecure
Rise above the primitive, it’s just mere ego.

Wonderful words of wisdom, Judy.
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Thank you Dennis🌷
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Actually at what age GAP do you consider a woman cougar? I might be one but I’m only 1 year older than my hubby. Haha.
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Hi Kally, I thought I sent a reply earlier, apologies if I send a double response! You’re off the hook, 😀, I think age gaps between 1-10 years is a reasonable range but I define cougars as middle aged women who date/have sex with men much younger, to the point that they could have been their son (from another mother 🙂), so about 20 years+ age gap. This applies to the older men too, I think it’s a form of midlife crisis/over compensating for wanting to regain their youth or validity of their virility/fertility status. I think aging gracefully is about confidence and acceptance of their new status as mentors/elders instead of trying to be forever youthful.
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Phew!!! Glad I’m off the hook. Haha! I don’t think I can ever date someone who is 5 or more years younger than me. I love maturity in a guy and love to be taken care of which is not easy because I usually like to take charge around things so a guy for me will have to step up his game. Oh well, I’m off the dating game anyways. Haha!
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😊, I know what you mean, I used to only date guys that were either my age, slightly younger or about 2-5 yrs older, I like to be able to relate to pop culture and nostalgic references from being close in age.
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What I liked most was when the poem was reaching its conclusion. Beautiful introspection in what people consider a taboo in my country. They prefer to avoid the subject but truths can be ignored not washed away!!
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Thank you, I think I’m drawn to writing about controversial topics😬!
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